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11/14/2019

The 4 C's

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It is SO easy to snap, to punish, to get angry when our kids are unkind... We were raised to believe that punishment will teach our kids "the lesson" to not bully again.⁠
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But, it doesn't seem to work.⁠
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Instead, I suggest to parents and educators to get themselves into the mindset of the 4C's when they have to talk with their children or students when there has been an issue.⁠
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The 4C's are: coach, calm, caring & curious.⁠
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If we can stay loving and non-judgemental, the TRUE story can come out. And when it does - we can solve it.⁠
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Usually, when the root issue is resolved, bullying ends.⁠
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Let's remember our little people need to learn how to BE, and that includes how to be KIND. It is up to us to help them learn those lessons.⁠

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